PELAKSANAAN BIMBINGAN KELUARGA DALAM PROSESI PERNIKAHAN ADAT TIDUNG ULUN PAGUN DI KABUPATEN TANA TIDUNG

Abstract

Implementing family guidance is an effort providing assistance to individuals, as leaders or family members so that they are able to create a complete and harmonious family, empowering oneself, being able to create and adapt to norms

family, as well as playing an active role or participating in and achieving family life

the happy one. The aim of this research is to find out the traditions of wedding processionsTidung customs and understanding the implementation of family guidance regarding the procession Tidung traditional wedding. This type of research uses qualitative. Deep subject This research is a Tidung tribe community that has carried out traditions Tidung traditional marriage, namely AF and MI. The instruments in this research are interviews, observation and documentation. Values ​​of Traditional Wedding Traditions The Tidung tribe includes values; 1) Request permission from family, 2) values hope (lasting, good offspring,  acceptance/recognition 3) The value of love, 4) the value of fortitude and sacrifice. 5) Honesty values, 6) Cooperation and mutual cooperation, 7) Responsibility and seriousness, 8) Prayer of blessing, 9) Agreement and agreements, 10) Togetherness, kinship and friendship, 11) Awareness, desire and realization abandon unwholesome habits.